So I’m on all these online, BDSM and lifestyle related forums and groups and whatnot. Sometimes I’m super active in them and sometimes I’m not. Lately I’ve been more active since we’ve been so busy with this crazy work schedule that we don’t get much chance to get out and be with our […]

Someone recently asked me what I find to be such a thrill in being a submissive. I’ve been meaning to answer this and some other questions he asked me for days - but I’ve been having a devil of a time finding the right words.
Mostly because, a lot of times, being a submissive is […]

I don’t know if it’s a trend or if I’ve simply started to notice it more in the past three or four years but what is the deal with every kink under the sun being lumped in with BDSM?
BDSM.
Bondage. Discipline.Dominance. Submission.Sadism. Masochism.
Sure, I can see things kind of tangling and twining so that many, many […]