I should have something to write.

I really should.

But I simply don’t.

I know I was going to get back to the “what do you do for each other?” issue but, after much pondering, I realized nothing we do for each other on a daily basis is all that spectacular.

It’s routine day to day living, day to day service from me and day to day control on his part. And that’s ok with me.

Sure, I’d like some more spectacular stuff thrown in more often but, hell, we’re real people with real lives and real struggles and real jobs to do and a real teenager in the house.

I expect spectacular on occasion - like a slice of chocolate decadence when I haven’t had sweets in awhile - but I’m realistic enough to know we don’t get spectacular on a daily basis. If we did it wouldn’t be spectacular anymore. It would be ordinary.

Ordinary should be ordinary so that we appreciate the spectacular when we get it.

Tiramisu would be boring if I ate it every night.

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Anyway…

Life around here is settling down into more of a routine than it’s had in a long ass time.

When Taylor and I were doing the roadside assistance gig, life for me was pretty much hell. It’s not that I don’t want to work. I’ve actually been taking steps to get my medical certifications and licenses straightened out. It’s just working with Taylor, on a perpetually on call basis, was very damned stressful.

I had no schedule, no routine, no allotted time to get anything done - and I resented doing a lot of things because of it.

Well, we’re out of that business and Taylor has gone to work with a general contractor and I’m back to being - for now - just a house mouse.

And, man, it feels good.

He’s working long hours and I get a little lonely during the day as I’m used to being with him 24/7 but…

I also get a lot more done every day.

The house has stayed clean (or at least “picked up”). I’ve been taking more time to make myself look pretty. I feel more available for sex - more eager and ready.

There are still things I need to work on to get back to being more service oriented but things are moving along in the right direction.

And that’s a good thing.

We still have our problems and issues but everyone does.

The worst thing being that he’s working those long hours and that leaves little energy when he gets home for “lifestyle” type things.

Can’t do anything about that. We’ll work on it when he’s ready to. We didn’t have time when we were on call all the freakin’ time, either. :0

So there you have it.

An ordinary blog about an ordinary life in an ordinary D/s relationship.

Exciting, isn’t it?