http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com ...ponderings from a submissive's perspective Fri, 15 Aug 2008 17:30:55 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en I've noticed something over at FetLife.Something that's bothersome to me on all sorts of levels. See, there are these people here. Most of them experienced, veterans of the scene with some years under their belt and very few illusions left as to the "fantasy" of BDSM. They live it, for the ... http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/08/14/take-the-bitches-to-the-vet/ So I meant to write a couple of meaningful posts this week.  That is so not happening. First, Taylor distracted me with his post. (I've been in some weird, gooey la-la land ever since I read the words  "to so completely nail her feet to my floor".  Odd, eh?)  Then I've ... http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/08/12/mud/ What needs to be understood here, is the fact that from day one, I have done what’s best for my family. Even though what I want, what I decide, what makes me happy is the priority for those in my home, I put the good of my family first. This is ... http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/08/11/comment-on-frightening-isn%e2%80%99t-it/ Cruelty: 1. A cruel act; a deliberate infliction of pain and suffering 2 Extreme heartlessness 3 An indifference to suffering 4 brutality, merciless, ruthless, heartless, harsh, mean, pitiless If I have a fetish, this is it. Cruelty. This is what I get off on. Sublime moments of cruelty and abuse. (And, no, I don't mean abuse in the ... http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/08/04/fetish-for-cruelty/ Do y'all read Under The Boot? If you don't, you should. Seriously. Head on over there now and read.  Belisarius always writes well but the last couple of blogs have been incredible. Go. Enjoy. I'm hoping the weekend comes fast cuz after reading there today I'm craving all sorts of stuff! http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/07/31/side-trip/ Yeah. Regarding my post yesterday. Did y'all know I'm getting seriously slammed over at Blood, Sweat, Tears?  (Go ahead, check it out. I know you're gonna.) It's a shame, too, cuz the girl liked me right up until yesterday. Seems the fact that I'd send Teen to his dad rather than leave ... http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/07/29/re-frightening/ A few months back kaya talked about the color blue.  Do y'all remember that blog?  C'mon, I know you all read her.  Anyhow.  I totally "got" that post because it happened in my life, too. Once upon a time my favorite color was red.  Deep, blood red. I had a red velvet ... http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/07/28/frightening-isnt-it/ Someone got insulted when I said "unowned slave" is an oxymoron. (quick edit there cuz I forgot the "un" when I posted in the wee hours of the morning) And I wonder why people don't define things the way I do? It's getting to be quite obvious it's because they have no ... http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/07/28/ps/ ...and I'll rant if I want to! Ahem. So... Back to conversations over on FetLife. Lots of talk lately about slave mindset vs submissive mindset. About the definition of the word slave and whether you can be one if you're not owned/don't have a master. Now I tend to define and use words quite literally.  ... http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/07/28/its-my-party/ Well, the weekend is over and Taylor is back to work tonight. Things didn't go exactly as planned in regards to the playing/filming. Aunt Flo put a major damper on me feeling up to anything at all beyond chillin' out and enjoying him being home.  (yes, yes, I did spend the ... http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/07/27/fucked-by-mother-nature/